Have Sex When Your Not In The Mood.


“Not tonight honey.”

 No sex couple
No sex couple

Why the best time to have sex is when you are not in the mood.

Sometimes women have a tendency to turn down their partner for sex. They may be understandably tired from work, kids and a busy life. Sex is the glue that holds a relationship together. By the time a couple finishes having an argument about not having sex, they could have already done the deed. When you love someone you sacrifice things for them and sometimes do things you really don’t want to. Sex shouldn’t be a sacrifice or something you’re obligated to do for the person you love.

Having sex isn’t a chore.

Sex with your partner shouldn’t be thought of as the equivalent of running a marathon. If you’re not in the mood to have sex, stop and think about how it’s really not going to take a lot of work. Taking ten to fifteen minutes to have sex when you’re not in the mood can add ten to fifteen years to a relationship.

The positives outweigh the negatives.

Even if you initially are not in the mood to have sex, once you start it usually begins to feel good. Then not only is your partner happy you are happy. Sex is a great stress reliever, and makes your overall relationship more intact. All the reasons not to have sex are minimal compared to the outcome from having sex, even if you don’t feel like it sometimes.



4 thoughts on “Have Sex When Your Not In The Mood.

  1. “it doesnt hurt…to lift your skirt!” – I love that saying and first heard it on Sirius Radio from the lovely Tiffany Granath on Playboy radio.

    It’s true though! Sex is the glue. Thank you so much for your comment! You do things to make your partener happy and this one shouldnt be viewed as a sacrifice. There are so many couples out there that have issues who want to have sex but can’t. Everytime we can have sex with our boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, husband or wife we should be thankful.

  2. I agree with this. Men, despite the stereotype, aren’t always in the mood. I sometimes have sex because my wife wants to even if I’m not really in the mood. Now granted being a man, to extent, you HAVE to be in the mood to perform (females, not necessarily), so you have to find a way to mentally get there. But there are times I’m definitely just going through the motions to please her and that’s ok! You do things to make your partner happy! And sometimes even if I’m not in the mood, half way through, I find that I AM in the mood.

    Sex begets sex.

    And, heck, “it doesn’t hurt…to lift your skirt!”


    great blog

  3. Pingback: Riding the Waves of Mood Shifts and Intensities | Roots to Blossom

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