Why do we
WHY DO WE FOCUS ON THE BAD THINGS SO FIERCELY? WE ANALYZE AND GET NO WHERE?
To make ourselves feel better about our under performance or not living up to our inborn capabilities.
Because it hurts so bad that our only way to stay afloat, is on top of the situation.
Or We Really Want An Answer To Appear…The Right Answer That Makes The Feeling Go Away.
Sometimes we can’t stop the focus or analyzing because we want the answer to appear. We think that if we consider all factors or levels on whats wrong that the answer will suddenly present itself. Also, sometimes we blame ourselves too early. When you blame yourself unfairly for something that is wrong with you life your mind doesn’t rest because deep down even you know your not the problem. What is mystifying about the focus and it’s intensity is how one day you wake up and it’s not there anymore. You can sometimes easily forget all the focus and pain that were put towards an issue when you are healed from it so quickly you don’t even care enough to thank God for being out of it.