– Sarah (33, USA)
Is this problem relatable to you? There is a lot of important dialogue and levels of different parts making up the foundation of her specific concerns. I want to focus on one theme in the following article: Drifting Apart. People often view or understand drifting apart as a incidence contributed by both parties in a relationship.
Do couples drift apart?
Or is it true that most of the time someone is drifting away and not the couple. You Are Not Drifting Apart If There Is Only 1 Drifter.
Ask Jessica Kelly-
First of all, we need to get out of the way that there is a possibility your boyfriend is cheating on you. Showing a lack of interest in your sex life is a symptom that he could be getting his needs met elsewhere. Also, the later out pour of affection towards you could be a way to relieve his mounting guilt. To relieve your suspicions of him cheating you need to start looking through his phone records, computer, and bank statements. There are also many affordable ways to use technology in order to catch a cheating partner. Always looks at reputable sites, and always do your research before purchasing anything, or using someones services. I know you might think this sounds crazy, but I can promise you that in six months from now if you’re still feeling this way; you will know what, “crazy,” really is. Even if he isn’t cheating, the fact that he doesn’t care about his lack of sexual advances toward you; and how that makes you feel isn’t right.
Example: *When it comes to humans and sexual issues, a large percentage of these issues are due to physical issues that are with doctor care very minor to treat. I once had a male client who was worrying about his lack of sex drive and feelings towards his wife in the intimate level he felt normal to him. I told him to get a check up and a blood test showed that his sugar lever enzymes (more detailed but in non-doctor language) were unbalanced. He said that he took three weeks of low dosed, no side effect bearing prescribed medication to fix the imbalance-which was a situation he could live a full life without treating by the way-and he got his sexy back. The doctor revealed later that his minor infraction does have a direct link to sexual issues but generally aren’t reported.
Men think they are big losers for going to the doctor unless there is something really wrong. So to entice or force him to get a check up say you read something about how families need to make it a mandatory decision to all get check ups at the same time. He still says no. Cry, Bring it up every day. Repeat. What if you or the kids just got a check up? They didn’t do blood work when you went-just say it. Men can easily have physical problems pertaining to sexual dysfunction as woman. No matter what age your boyfriend is he could have an imbalance or lower level of testosterone in his body. A lack of testosterone in males can cause mood swings, erratic behavior and depression. A simple blood test can rule this out immediately. I would suggest to him that the whole family needs to get a checkup. Make an appointment and ask him to test his testosterone levels. If he thinks that is an odd request, just say you read something about how it could save your life and rule out many types of disease; which is true anyway. You’re Right! He Is Wrong! He knows that your right! He knows that he is wrong! Awareness isn’t blind except in dire circumstances and in that case there would be a huge underlying issue: overly exaggerated for a reason example-“schizophrenia. “
Snooping Is The Same As Running-While Being Chased!!